I am the middle girl of the girls in our family and my younger sister and I are only 10 months apart. Being the older sister, I’ve always felt the need to take care of my younger sister. Even at a very young age, I would make sure she was fed and didn’t go hungry.

(Mom-we look like we needed our hair brushed. I know you had one in that purse.)
When I was in second grade and she was in first, there was a boy she disliked and she didn’t want to go out to recess. She didn’t want to tell my Mom and seeing that I was so experienced with cursive handwriting, I wrote her teacher a note that read - “Jerri has a eyerake (earache) can she please stay in - from Mrs. (our last name)”. (My Mom still carries this in her purse.)
When we were teenagers and she was grounded I would ask my parents if she could go hang out with me and my friends because they trusted me. The plan never failed and I would drop her off at her friend’s house while I went with my friends. Sorry Mom/Dad.
When she became a Mom, I would always help out. I would often keep her daughter Ashley for a night or weekend. Ashley was always a very good baby and as she got a little bigger she was so polite, never said a mean thing, was always concerned about others and never ever repeated bad words.
It was a Friday night and I picked Ashley up to come and spend the night. Ashley was about 5 at the time. We had plans to go get something to eat and get movies. While we were sitting at dinner talking about 5 year old things, Ashley whispers to me, “Um…JoJo, my Mom called you the ”B” word.” That is exactly how she said it. The “B” word.
After all the years I looked after my little sister, I still can’t believe she would call me a bad name. I will never forget those words and I’m still hurt by them.
I am off to counseling…